Dee MurrayTherapies

I’ve been sharing recently about how I think it’s time and beyond time for women to step into their power and finally feel their worth and earn good money.

I’ve been talking about how I believe working harder and harder still is not going to get you there, or if it does the cost to your health, family life, relationships and soul is just too much.

I been talking about how working hard and building a business doesn’t always mean that you are taking home earnings close to what you were hoping, or indeed any more than you were earning working for someone else.

BUT you are

• a lot more tired,
• a lot more overwhelmed,
• and a lot less fulfilled than you thought you were going to be

YOU are

• wondering why you can’t make this work for you?
• feeling guilty and embarrassed about how much time and money you spend on your work
• feeling the weight of self-doubt and disappointment bearing down

AND you are probably asking yourself the devastating question ‘what am I doing wrong? ‘

The DREAM of running a business that you love, having plenty of time with your family, taking holidays to long time dreamt of places, serving humanity through your business, being rewarded well for all the love and effort you put in is getting further and FURTHER AWAY.

If even a small part of this feels real and true for you then it is time to do something different.

We all know by now – it’s quoted often enough – that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Overused it may be but in this instance, I think it’s both relevant and true.

You’re probably up at the crack of dawn doing the busy work, much if which is unpaid, and finding it so much harder than advertised to run a fulfilling supportive business.

You already know you can’t just carry on as you have been, and you might even have an inkling that it could be an idea to get on top of this ‘mindset’ thing.

You’re probably aware that avoiding looking at money is no longer viable if you want to take your business to the next level because you’ve seen that working harder, learning about marketing, putting the hours in, being authentically you can only take you so far.

It is time to come at this from a different angle and start to have a look at your money and your money mindset.

It is time to let go of euphemisms for money like ‘abundance’ and ‘prosperity,’ and take back the power and consciousness to finally change what isn’t serving you.

It is time to open the windows wide and let the fresh air and sunlight in, so you can feel uplifted and get excited about your business again.

Changing your relationship with money is the means to get yourself there, and why you can’t receive it well is all down to old, out of date subconscious programming.

But how do you get to the roots of that old programming?

Well let’s get specific and look at the 5 categories of money and the 3 aspects to each category you must look at if you really want to find those hidden inner blocks and move beyond them.

It’s in the act of moving beyond them that you become the on fire, magnetic, vibrant business woman that knows her worth!

The 5 categories of money are

1. Savings
2. Debt
3. Income
4. Income Goals
5. Toxic Money

And each has 3 unique aspects:

1. Emotions that run through the Nervous System
2. Programmed beliefs = habitual inner talk
3. Past ‘traumas’ or significant emotional events that are connected

So I want to give you a real life example of what this actually means for you.

Let’s work with the type of money called income.

(If you want to do this along with me then HERE’s a FB live where I take you through it)

Grab a pen and paper and write down your monthly income, the money you take home from doing the work you love and just look at it.

Take a deep breath and point at your income and say

1.  “it’s Not Enough! 

How true does that statement feel 0-10? O being not true.

1. And what are the 2 main feelings appear? Write them down.
2. What do you say in your head? What negative thoughts pop up?
3. And is there past event around your income or your parents income that comes up? Write it down even if it doesn’t appear to make sense.
4. Finish this sentence: “This Means I’m _____________________!”

And now it’s time to ask a hard question.

• How Long has it been this way?
• How much has this cost you?
• How much will it continue to cost you if nothing changes?

This exercise is very clarifying!

These are that types of unconscious thoughts and emotions that are there any time you think about your money and that’s what gets us on that hamster wheel time and time again.

Can you see how all this negative energy is blasting through your nervous system anytime you even come close to thinking about or doing anything about your money.

And that’s just your income!

It is triggering.

It is hard.

It does hurt.

There are often tears.

This is the kind of work that requires tenacity, and a real willingness to 100% leave no stone unturned as you commit to changing your money story and clear the roots to your deepest blocks to both money AND your value.

Then you bring out more of your natural confidence, personal power, and enthusiastic action…

…and that changes EVERYTHING!

When you are willing to work with this and take the pain right down then you can use this clarity to your benefit.

I use Emotional Freedom Techniques to shift those hidden inner blocks. Once you’ve done the exercise above then use this tapping to help you get started.

And don’t forget to let me know how you’re getting on HERE!

 

 

If you would like my help with breaking through your income glass ceiling then I invite you to book a Discover you biggest money block 90 Deep Dive call with me –  just click HERE to book in a call into my calendar.”