I blogged about my deep belief that women DESERVE to earn well.
But what do I mean when I say ‘deserve’ or ‘inner self worth?’.
I believe we pick up limiting beliefs about what ‘people like us’ are ALLOWED to be and have and do in our childhood.
Often from well-meaning parents, teachers, society in general, and so we hold ourselves to an idea of what we think we are allowed. This is mostly UNCONSCIOUS, we’re not actually aware that we are doing it.
Imagine you decide to set yourself a new goal in your business, to RAISE your prices let’s say. This is often an icky sticky time where we come up with all sorts of reasons not to do it…the economy, my clients can’t afford it/will leave/won’t buy, I’ll do it in a few months etc!…
…but the chances are you’ll PROCRASTINATE and put it off not because of all those reasons but because you have just hit your inner deserving wall or SET POINT.
Your set point is like a thermostat that is set to keep a house at a certain temperature. So if you try and stretch too far from your inner set point by raising your prices you have come back into balance, even if that doesn’t serve you anymore!
So in our example it will feel difficult, yucky, it might even make you feel sick when you think about raising your prices! It might feel wrong somehow. You might feel guilty.
And it doesn’t just show up in your money. Your inner worthy and deserving set points show up all over the place.
How much or little of anything you allow: Relaxation, love, reward, ease in your body. The list goes on.
It’s all the big and little hidden blocks and limiting beliefs showing up to protect you. To keep you safe. First and foremost your subconscious will always try to keep you safe . It will rifle through all your experiences that are similar to the one you’re having now and offer an action or a behaviour that worked before.
These become behavioural patterns and can be hard to push through.
There is an easier path that will help you breakthrough those pesky inner gremlins much more quickly. An easier path to help you shatter your own personal inner glass ceiling!
It’s the mindset work. Change your mind and the rest will follow.
My son is always saying ‘it’s just my mind telling me what to do Mommy, I can’t control it!’, and I tell him he has the power to change his mind if he really wants to! He’s 6. We’ll get there 🙂
I believe wholeheartedly that in order to achieve our goals, earn our worth, and be VISIBLE in the world we have to do the INNER MINDSET WORK!
I use money as a way in because it shows us so clearly where we don’t value ourselves.
Because it’s uncomfortable and it hurts.
And when we clear our hidden blocks to earning more we GAIN SO MUCH MORE than money!
Life opens up in new exciting ways when we open up to it. The inner work is what gets us there.
…WHERE are you not allowing and bumping up against your own set point?!
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